Nameless

Why do some girls act like they don't watch porn, and never touch themselves downstairs in that magical spot. When in fact we all know its natural to do so. All have and still do so ladies cut the crap and tell us, "what's the deal with that?"

Asked by Nameless  2 years ago women porn and masturbating


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I'm not entirely sure. Most of the girls know admit that they enjoy masturbating, and even then, only a few admit to enjoying porn.

As far as masturbating goes, my best hypothesis is for the same reason men don't openly admit to masturbating. They don't want to be seen as perverts (I'm not saying they are. I'm simply pointing out that there is a certain stigma around masturbating). If men openly admit to that, they'll be seen as perverts and girls/women will tend to think that all they care about is sex. With women, I would imagine that that stigma exists, but not for the same reasons. They don't want to appear sexually promiscuous so as not to attract certain types of men.

As far as porn goes, I wouldn't even begin to speculate.

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Johnsex
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Traditional gender roles have a lot to do with a woman's openness to admitting they've masturbated/watched porn, with a significant disparity between admitting men and women becoming first apparent in late junior high and high school. Cultural and religious beliefs can cause guilt more-so in women than men and can even lead to sexual disorders (vaginismus, anorgasmia, etc.). What you get in your answer from women is also affected by social desirability bias (how your society expects you to respond) which is probably the most major factor in this disparity in reporting men and women. Although sexual health education in North America has been improving, especially when compared globally, traditional female expectations still exist.   
What is important is to educate women of all races and early ages that self-exploration is healthy, private, and important for understanding self and discovering potentially harmful bodily changes like cancer or disease.

by Johnsex 2 years ago

King1320
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Yeah my wife was kinda like yours Jake she never di alot of masterbating but one night I was able to get her to watch a softcore like playboy vid on like a centerfold shoot and it took off from there a few years later and she was more into watching porn than I was.

by King1320 2 years ago

Jakespeedwell
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Good question!  My wife was exactly like that and swore she never played with herself or watched porn, the bad part is I totally believe her.. Lol. She when to private schools and grew up in a full house where privacy was not in abundance.  So here is what I did.  She has always been an avid reader so I did some research into which writers wrote the best sex scenes.  I started to buy her paperbacks that were full of sex.  Took a while but she has slowly turned into one hell of a sex freak. Even started masturbating in front of me and watching porn with me!  She now has confessed she really likes girl on girl porn.
Just my 2 cents!

by Jakespeedwell 2 years ago

Partysmants
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Most women have no problem about being open about masturbation. Go to a sex toy store, and look around, most customers are females, women have sex toy parties even with friends. Have you ever seen guys even gay guys get together to talk about dildos, butt plugs, flashlights, or pocket pussies ? 

Women masturbate just as much as men, and once you get to collage you will learn about that too. 

As for porn, I think it is about 40/60 split mostly males who watch them, only because women are not as visually stimulated, and most porn is aimed towards a male audience. 

by Partysmants 2 years ago

Andriad069
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I love porn and get off as many times as I can watching it.

by Andriad069 2 years ago

Brian
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I believe that most women are more attracted to the physical aspect of sex...the touch, feel, and intimacy.  Men are much more visual where women are more touch sensitive.  My wife tells me that porn does nothing for her and, in fact, gets turned off by it!  She believes that if we watch porn, I will be thinking about the girls in the movie rather than her when we have sex.  I believe it's her own insecurities.  She has admitted to having a MFM relationship in the past (before we met) but won't even consider that now with me.  We are both decent looking so her insecurities don't make sense to me but to this day, after being together for 12 years, I can not break through.

by Brian 2 years ago

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The right quiestion would  be why should they discuss it  with you. Some just don't want to tell you. Except it.

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Why do some girls act like they don't watch porn, and never touch themselves downstairs in that magical spot. When in fact we all know its natural to do so. All have and still do so ladies cut the crap and tell us, "what's the deal with that?"

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