Mr P

How do i get my wife more interested in wearing a strap on for me, says she doesnt see point because she wont get anything out of it only me, someone please help?

Asked by Mr P 4 years ago strap on help


Kargon00
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Try to work on your relationship with her, if she sees it as a matter of exchange of what makes her happy and what makes you happy then there are few things you might want to look into it. ??The idea would be an unconditional satisfaction, you do not or she does not need t get something out of everything everytime, but that is just my opinion. ??other thing maybe it is a very big turn off for her - just another view.

by Kargon00 4 years ago

Kenneth Kirby
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Buy her chocolates and flowers, that usually does the trick. If that doesn't work; jewelry.

:P Kidding, thought I'd yank Indi's chain.

by Kenneth Kirby 4 years ago

Harry Haversackers
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In my situation, my wife pegged me initially for my sake, kinky old sod that I am.  Over a short period of time, she found that it really turned her on, for two reasons.  One is that she likes to pleasure me, and we found that it drives me crazy to take her strap-on cock up my butt, and secondly, she gets off on the power she gets from having a penis.  She now has some of her best orgasms while I'm on my hands and knees in front of her.

So your request to your wife should include:  "Try it, you may just like it a lot".

by Harry Haversack...  4 years ago

Scarlet
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Try and find a form of strap-on that will also give her some pleasure, as that might encourage her to try.  The Feeldoe, for example:

http://www.feeldoe.co.uk/pictures/feeldoes.htm

If that doesn't tickle her fancy, I say try to get her to start small, rather than leaping in at the deep end with a strap-on.  Perhaps encourage her to finger you while giving you head in a 69?  It may just be that she's not quite sure of the whole thing, and a session with a strap-on is therefore a little intimidating to her.

by Scarlet 4 years ago

Msindependent
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I don't know the dynamic of your relationship, but I know that the times I am most excited to give unselfishly are the times when I feel the most loved and adored. I know that to respond sexually is something that most men can appreciate ;)  I want to live a life of love towards my partner and if there's something I can do to do make him feel good then why not? Obviously, it doesn't always work this way, but maybe if she knows how much you cherish her and how much joy you get from seeing her happy she'll have a change of heart.    *note* I am not suggesting manipulation to get what you want...if you don't adore her then don't pretend like you do just for sex cuz that's just disgusting :P

by Msindependent 4 years ago

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